Archive for January, 2011

Orange County Probate Attorney Reveals the Top 8 Steps to Take Following the Death of a Loved One

Monday, January 31st, 2011

As an Orange County probate attorney, I know the days and weeks following the death of a loved one can be overwhelming.  You may have a funeral or memorial service to plan, important people to contact and a stack of loose ends to tie up. Not to mention, you’re grieving!  Sometimes it’s challenging enough to get out of bed, let alone deal with the required tasks of administering an estate.

Fortunately, knowing where to start and learning how to prioritize things can make a huge difference in preserving your sanity during this difficult time.  Following a checklist will also help to ensure that you don’t overlook any important steps in closing out your loved one’s affairs.

So with that said, I put together a priority list of things to do immediately following the death of a loved one in the state of California.  These steps are in no particular order, but should all be completed as soon as possible after a death occurs:

1.       Secure any property- If your loved one owned a home(s), I would advise you to waste no time in removing the valuables and getting everything locked up tight.  This will not only keep the house safe from criminals and vandals, but it will also help to ensure friends or family members will not start “administering the estate” and taking what they believe to be theirs before the proper time.

2.       Request certified copies of the death certificate- You will need a certified copy of the death certificate to claim social security benefits, transfer property, close out bank accounts and handle any other financial affairs.  You can typically order a copy of the death certificate from the funeral home or get a copy from the Orange County Health Care Agency here.

3.       Freeze financial accounts- You’ll want to take an inventory of your loved one’s financial affairs as soon as possible following his or her passing.  Essentially you’ll want to make sure all automatic debits are stopped and a freeze is placed on bank accounts and credit cards that are not jointly owned.  You’ll also want to stop any automatic deposits scheduled to hit the bank account before you officially close it out.

4.       Locate estate planning documents and contact a probate attorney- The steps you must take to administer your loved one’s estate will depend on the documentation he or she had in place at death.  If your loved one did not have a will or only had a will in place, you will need an attorney to assist you in filing with the probate court. If your loved one had a trust in place, you will avoid the court process, but will still need to contact an attorney to ensure the trust is administered properly and all expenses of the estate are paid.

5.       Relocate abandoned pets- If a loved one died leaving pets alone in the house, immediate steps must be taken to relocate the animals with another family member, friend or local shelter.  You may also want to contact your loved one’s attorney to find out if they had legal plans in place to care for their pets upon their passing.

6.       Contact social security- Social security must be notified following the death of a loved one. You should call them at 1-800-772-1213.  Benefits will be stopped upon notification and you can also inquire about surviving benefits for a spouse or child.

7.       Claim important benefits- If your loved one had life insurance or was entitled to death benefits from his or her place of employment, union or civic organization, it’s important to contact such places and find out how to start your claim.

8.       Consider long-term care for the surviving spouse-  If your loved one left behind a surviving spouse who is elderly and unable to live alone, consideration should immediately be given to his or her long-term care. This could mean having the spouse stay with a family member until residency at an assisted living or nursing home facility can be arraigned or hiring in-home health aides who can provide care on a daily basis.

In addition to following the steps above, I also invite you to contact me, your neighborhood Orange County probate lawyer, if you need help sorting through the legalities (including the probate process!) following your loved one’s passing.


Newport Beach Tax Attorney Warns, “The Tax Man Cometh”

Friday, January 28th, 2011

I know as a Newport Beach Tax Attorney, right now, tax returns are probably the furthest thing from your mind…

With all the celebrating and gift giving, the last thing you want to think about is filing your taxes.

Unfortunately, we all know that once January 2nd rolls around, tax season for small business owners will be here before we can finish the chorus of “Auld Lang Sein”…

And if you have any tax questions, now is the time to ask them – before the insanity of tax season officially begins and it’s easier to get an audience with Queen Elizabeth than to get your accountant on the phone.

In an effort to get you thinking about what you need to pull together for your taxes, here is a list of some of the top questions the IRS receives from small business owners.

You may have some of the same concerns:

1.        If a married couple owns a business together, can the business be classified as a sole proprietorship or does it have to be a partnership?

In order to be a sole proprietorship, the business would have to be owned by either the husband or the wife, but not both.  The other spouse would work for the business as an employee.

However, if the couple files a joint tax return, they can elect to conduct the business as a joint venture.  In order to qualify as a joint venture, they both have to participate materially in the venture and they must divide the items of income, gain, loss, deduction, credit and expenses according to each of their interests in the joint venture.

2.         What’s the difference between a W-2 and a Form 1099-MISC?

Both of these forms are information returns.  W-2’s are used by employers to report         wages, tips, and other compensation paid to the employee as well as any deductions for Social Security.  A Form 1099-MISC is used to report payments made in the course of a trade or business to another person or business that is not an employee.  This form is provided both to the person paid and to the IRS.

3.         How do I know if a person is an employee or an independent contractor?

This is a tricky question, but ultimately it’s based on who has the right to control how, when, and where the person performs the services they’re paid for.  It has nothing to do with how the person is paid, how often the person is paid, or whether they work full or part-time.  The three things to consider when making this determination are: behavioral control, financial control, and the relationship between the parties.

4.         Does my corporation or partnership have to file a tax return if we had no income for the year?

A domestic partnership has to file an income tax return unless it neither receives gross income or pays or incurs any amount treated as a deduction or credit for federal tax purposes.

A domestic corporation has to file an income tax return regardless of whether it received taxable income or not.

5.         Am I liable if my employees receive tips and don’t report them to me?

As an employer, you have a liability to withhold and pay Social Security and Medicare tax on your employees’ reported tips to the extent that wages or other employee funds are available.

Employees who receive tips as part of their compensation are required to report their cash tips to their employers at least monthly if they receive $20 or more in the month.  If the employee does not report the tips to you, it places you at risk of possible assessment of the employer’s share of the Social Security and Medicare taxes on the unreported tips.

If your business is a large restaurant or beverage establishment (i.e., you have more than 10 employees on a typical day and food and beverages are consumed on your premises), you are required to allocate tips if the total tips reported to you are less than 8% of gross sales.  Report the allocated amount on the employee’s W-2 at the end of the year.

6.         I have a small company, do I need a tax ID number?

If you are a sole proprietor, don’t have any employees and you don’t file any excise or pension tax returns, you don’t need a tax ID number.  You can use your social security number.  However, if you are not a sole proprietor and you do have employees, you need to have a tax ID number.  It’s easy to obtain and you can do it all online.

7.         If I pay personal expenses out of my business bank account, do I count the money as part of my income or can I write off these expenses?

Include the money in your income.  You would not write off these amounts as expenses.  Only those expenses directly related to your business can be deducted from your income as business expenses.  The IRS recommends against mixing business and personal accounts as it makes it much easier to keep good, clean records.

8.         Are there limits on what I can deduct for meals while traveling on business?

Meal expenses are only deductible if your trip is overnight or long enough that you need to stop for sleep or rest to properly perform your duties.  Instead of keeping records, you can use a standard meal allowance.  The amount allowed varies according to where and when you travel.  The deduction for unreimbursed business meals is limited to 50% of the cost that would otherwise be deductible.

We hope this list has made you think about any possible questions you have for your tax professional.  Now is the time to ask, before the tax season insanity begins.  Knowing the answers to your questions ahead of time will make it much easier to pull the proper information together and make filing your tax returns easier for everyone involved.

If you’re an independent entrepreneur or you’re considering taking the leap to business ownership, call me, your neighborhood Newport Beach tax attorney today to schedule your comprehensive LIFT™ (legal, insurance, financial and tax) Foundation Audit.  As your personal legal advisors we will help you make sure you’re on solid footing with your paperwork before it gets to the IRS. Normally, this session is $1250, but if you mention this article and we still have room on our calendar this month, we will waive that fee.


Business Attorney in Newport Beach Discusses Interviewing Your Financial Planner

Thursday, January 27th, 2011

By: Darlynn Morgan, Business Attorney in Newport Beach

It’s a new year – time to get the financial house in order.

But with all the bad news about crooked investment counselors and dishonest financial planners, you may be more than a little hesitant to trust someone with your life savings.

If you want to hire a professional to handle your portfolio, you need to do what folks in the legal trade call “due diligence”.

You need to do your homework and interview the planners you’re considering.

When choosing a financial planner, ask them the following questions to get a good feel for not only their level of expertise, but their ethics as well.

Question No. 1: How many years of financial planning experience do you have?

They should have at least five years of experience.  If you have a sizable portfolio, you want someone with considerably more experience.  Don’t let someone “learn the ropes” with your money.

Question No. 2: What level of education do you have?

Any financial advisor should have at least a Bachelors degree.  The more advanced the education, the better.  Find out where they went to school and check the school out to make sure it’s an accredited university.  You don’t want to hire someone to handle your money who bought their degree.  Of course, if it’s Harvard, Yale, Stanford or some other well known university, you can skip this step.  Just make sure that it’s a valid degree.

Question No. 3: Do you have any additional professional certifications?

The correct answer to this is yes, these certifications indicate that your advisor has obtained specialized knowledge in their area of expertise.  That’s good news for your portfolio.

Question No. 4: Are you a Registered Investment Advisor or Investment Advisor Representative?

RIA’s and IAR’s provide financial planning services for a fee.  Other types of advisors will sell you investment and insurance products and work on commission.  You need to know what you are getting and be comfortable with the answer so you can determine what is in your best interest.

Question No. 5: How do you get paid?

There are three typical answers to this question – hourly, asset-based, or fixed fee.  If the answer is commissions, you’ll want to dig a little deeper to ensure that there isn’t a conflict of interest, meaning, you want their first thought to be protecting and growing your money, not just making a sale.

There is no time like the present to start planning for your financial future.  If you’ve been hesitating in hiring a professional to help you, taking these questions into the interview will make it much easier for you to determine whether or not the planner you’re interviewing is the right one for you. This is your life savings and your future we’re talking about.  Take it very seriously and proceed with caution.

Call us to schedule your Family Wealth Planning Session today.  As your neighborhood Business Attorney in Newport Beach, I can help you with getting your legal and financial house in order and ensure that you’re getting the best advice possible.  Our Family Wealth Planning Session is normally $750, but this month I’ve made space for the next two people who mention this article to have a complete planning session with me at no charge.  Call (949) 260-1400 today and mention this article.


5 Steps to Avoid Financial Strain When Caring for Aging Parents

Wednesday, January 26th, 2011

I wanted to share a link to this wonderful video I found online about having “tough financial conversations” with aging parents when it appears they do not have, or will quickly be running out of money, to cover their long-term care expenses.

In my opinion as an Orange County elder attorney, this issue is more problematic than ever.  With medical technology constantly improving and people living longer as a result, even the most financially-savvy individual can find their savings or retirement accounts sorely lacking in the later stages of life.

As you can imagine, this premature disappearance of funds often comes as a shock to individuals who have saved most of their adult life to ensure they would not be a burden on their family when retirement came.

Yet the sad reality is that family members often have to step in when it appears elderly parents can no longer support themselves.

The most important thing is to not let this take you by surprise.  As this video suggests, families should plan ahead and get a mutual understanding about what would transpire if mom or dad suddenly needed financial help.

This will ultimately help to avoid last minute scrambling, tension and financial catastrophe if important medical or long-term care expenses are in jeopardy of going unpaid.

You can watch the video here and be sure to come back to my blog to let me know what you thought!

Of course if you need further assistance in preparing for your parent’s financial future such as advanced asset protection planning, Medi-Cal planning or general estate planning, I invite you to give me, your neighborhood Newport Beach elder attorney, a call at (949) 260-1400.  With the mention of this article, you can come in for one of my comprehensive Family Wealth Planning Sessions to discuss the needs of your aging parents.  However, these sessions are limited to 10 per month so call today!


In order to live well, any day has to be a good day to die!

Monday, January 24th, 2011

By Melissa Shaw, CFP®

For me, the life lesson of 9/11/2001 was that the end can come on any day.  It’s not the sort of thing you get to plan.  You live life to the fullest every day, you be kind to the people you love, and you remember to put on clean underwear every morning, just like your mother told you to!  If you’re good in your heart and your soul, then any day can be a good day to die, not that you want it to happen!  This is where a little preparation can prevent poor performance.

Once you become of age, and you begin to own some assets we speak of financial responsibilities.  Having a Newport Beach Living Trust is a terrific solution if you own real estate or have some assets and some life insurance.  It becomes the family business plan for how things should happen if you live, die or become incapacitated.  We cover the will and minor children guardianship issues, and the living will lets you give thought to how long you are willing to live, and where quality of life trumps quantity of life.  You take some responsibility for life and death decisions.  It’s a kind thing to do for those that you love, and for those that love you!

In my house, the big picture is important, but life needs to be lived on a daily basis.  It truly comes down to cash flow and how sustainable is your present plan and strategy.  The only way to know is to INSPECT what you EXPECT.  The Financial Counselor Notebook www.FCN.com is a fine companion to your Orange County estate plan.  It addresses how you are presently playing the “Money Game” and how you set up your own game of Monopoly® in the first place.  It allows us to look at how you have set up your cash assets, investment assets and personal use assets.  We inspect your debt, and consider your present strategy as well as your goals and objectives.  What are you trying to do?

Cash flow is the name of the game.  Grandma always said “Don’t slaughter the goose, just spend the golden eggs.”  It’s great advice, but it still requires a goose!  During your working years, YOU are the goose.  You create the income.  Financial independence comes from your assets creating the golden eggs, even if you are not earning them personally.  For most of us, that is the enviable position we strive to achieve!  It is when our money is working hard making money instead of us working hard earning money.

The peace of mind you have is priceless when your estate plan and your daily financial life work together.  We are better wives and mothers when we know our family is cared for and financially secure.  It’s good to do the “We Thing” with our spouse! The Financial Counselor Notebook is the tool to empower couples.


Orange County Estates Lawyer Encourages You to Add Estate Planning To Your List of Resolutions This Year

Friday, January 21st, 2011

By Darlynn Morgan, Orange County Estates Lawyer

While many people focus on getting out of debt or getting organized for the New Year, estate planning is an equally important personal finance goal that should make every adult’s to-do list.

That’s simply because resolving to get your legal affairs in order is one of the most important things you can do to make sure your family, wishes and assets are protected if something unexpectedly happens to you this year.

As an Orange County estates lawyer, I know that far too many area residents are without plans to protect the people or things they love the most should the unthinkable occur.  In fact, a recent lawyers.com survey reveals that only 35% of adults have a basic will or other estate planning documents in place should death or incapacity suddenly strike without warning.

Yet it’s important to remember that without such documents in place, a judge could be forced to make painful custody decisions on your child’s behalf, heirs you may not even like could inherit your estate and under the new privacy laws, no one would have explicit permission to make important medical or financial decisions for you if you were incapacitated in an accident.

That is why at a bare minimum, every adult needs a basic will or trust (depending on the amount of assets you own and potential tax complications), power of attorney forms and health care directives in place to avoid a legal and financial nightmare if something unexpectedly happens.

If you’re not sure what exactly these documents do for you and why you need them in the first place, I’d like to offer a brief crash course.

For starters, a will is a document that specifies what should happen to your assets if you pass away.  This helps to ensures that your assets are distributed to the people you want, in a way you want, if something happens.  A will is also instrumental in naming guardians who can care for your minor children on a short or long term basis.

A trust on the other hand is a legal entity that can hold title to property. With your assets securely placed in a trust, you can minimize your financial exposure to lawsuits, divorce and bankruptcy while alive.  Upon death, a trust will keep your affairs private and out of the probate court.  It also allows a great deal of control for people who do not want their inheritance going outright to their heirs at a young or impressionable age.

A power of attorney form gives explicit permission for someone to access your personal accounts, pay your bills and handle all other financial and legal affairs if you are incapacitated in an accident but do not die.   Under the current privacy laws, even a spouse may have a hard time accessing personal information without such documentation in place.

Finally, an advanced health care directive, also known as a living will, specifies your healthcare wishes if you are incapacitated in an accident and unable to speak for yourself.  Such wishes may range from whether you want certain medications administered to when (if at all) to start life support in critical situations.   This document also allows you to appoint the person best suited to carry out such wishes should incapacity occur.

Remember, accidents and serious illnesses happen every day without warning.  That is why it’s so important for any adult who has not tackled their estate planning to add it to their list of New Year’s resolutions this year.  It will ultimately save your family from years of headaches and thousands of dollars in unexpected costs should tragedy strike.


“Intangible” Estate Planning – Wills Lawyer in Orange County Says Think Beyond the Paperwork

Thursday, January 20th, 2011

By Darlynn Morgan, Wills Lawyer in Orange County

When you finally make the decision to plan your estate, you’ll hear the same words over and over again…

Wills…

Trusts…

Revocable Trusts…

Power of Attorney…

Those words are the stock and trade of Orange County estate planning specialists.

You take your material possessions and compartmentalize who should receive what and how much.  And you’ll use those wills, trusts and powers of attorney to take care of the legalities of passing on what you’ve accumulated over the span of your life.

But what about the intangible things you accumulate during your lifetime?

What documents or words do you use to pass those on?

Here are a few words I as a wills lawyer in Orange County would like to challenge you to think about when you sit down to plan your “intangible” estate:

1. Values

Most of us have values and principles that we hold dear and want to pass on to our children.  If something happened to you and you were not around to see your children reach adulthood, what values would you want to ensure were passed on to your children, or even your grandchildren?  For instance, which is more important to you – money or health?  Who do you consider to be your hero or role model? Of all the things you accomplished in your lifetime, which gave you the deepest satisfaction?  These are all things that should be written down or recorded and preserved for your loved ones.

2. Personality

Who are your children? Yes, they’re your offspring, but who are they as individuals? What are their strengths? What are their weaknesses?  What type of person would be best suited to help raise them if you weren’t around?  We challenge you to think about the personalities and emotional needs of your children when deciding who would be best suited to raise them in your place.


Probate Attorney in Orange County Discusses ‘When The Unthinkable Happens’…

Wednesday, January 19th, 2011

By Darlynn Morgan, Probate Attorney in Orange County

It’s “Date Night” Friday…

The one night a week when you and your spouse spend time together…talk about the week…have a nice leisurely dinner…just the two of you.

You’ve lined up a babysitter…

You left money for the pizza delivery guy and a list of contact numbers on the refrigerator door…right under the magnet you bought in Yosemite last summer…

You’ve got everything taken care of…

Except what happens to your children if the unthinkable happens and you never make it back home.

If you have minor children and you’re severely injured or worse in an accident, the police may have no choice but to place your children with Child Protective Services if they don’t have information or documentation indicating who you would want to care for your children.

Once the immediate situation has passed, your children could then be at the mercy of the “system”.  There is no way the State can know who would be the best choice as a guardian for your children.

So…what do you need to do?

First, as a Probate Attorney in Orange County, I’d advise you to Put Your Guardianship Wishes in Writing!

 

Just telling your chosen guardian that you want them to take care of your children is not enough.  What you “said” is not legally sufficient and you could be placing your children at the mercy of the foster care system for a long period of time.  You need to have a plan in place, written instructions, and the proper legal documentation in order to ensure that your wishes are followed and that everyone knows what those wishes are.

Another misconception is that if you name a guardian in your Will, that’s all you have to do.

Wrong.

A guardianship provided for in a Will only takes effect after you die.  If you become incapacitated but are still alive, it means nothing.

Proper Documentation for Guardianship

A good, solid guardianship plan will allow you to choose guardians either on a permanent or temporary basis and leave instructions for those guardians so they know exactly what you want them to do and under what circumstances.

You need to have at least these documents in place at all times if you have minor children:

1.         Legal documentation naming a short term or temporary guardian in case you become incapacitated for a short period of time, or in the interim between your death and the time your permanent guardian can arrive.  The best option for this guardianship is someone close by that can take immediate custody of your children and keep them out of the court system.  Make sure that you talk to these individuals about your plans and that they are willing to serve as temporary guardians.  Have their names at the top of a contact list that is available immediately in the event you are not able to communicate.  And always make sure they have a copy of the documents naming them as temporary guardians.

2.         Legal documents naming permanent guardians.  The same information applies for this document as for temporary guardianship papers.  Make sure you talk to the people you select and that they have copies of these documents to provide to the court.

3.         Make sure you have written instructions for anyone taking care of your children so they know exactly what needs to be done if something happens to you.  Make sure they know who to call.  Even if you’re leaving your kids with the 16 year old kid next door to babysit on Friday night, make sure she or he knows what needs to be done if the worst happens.  And always have written instructions in place for the person or persons you choose as a guardian to tell them how you want your children to be raised.

4.         Always have a Medical Authorization and Power of Attorney for your children, especially if you’re sending them to Grandma’s on their own.  These documents will allow the person taking care of your children in your absence to make medical decisions that could be a matter of life and death.

Really makes you think, doesn’t it?

He said/She said will not hold up in court, so if that is the only plan you’ve made for your

children if the unthinkable happens, you could be placing them at the mercy of the

foster care system without even realizing it.

If all this has made you realize you would like to get your documents in order to make sure that your children and your property are taken care of, call me, your neighborhood Probate Attorney in Orange County, to schedule your Family Wealth Planning Session today.  We can identify what you need to do to plan for your family’s future and answer any questions you have about an effective estate plan.  Our Family Wealth Planning Session is normally $750, but this month I’ve made space for the next two people who mention this article to have a complete planning session with me at no charge.  Call today and mention this article.


Orange County Tax Attorney Offers a Straight Scoop on the New Tax Law and Your Estate Plan

Tuesday, January 18th, 2011

As an Orange County tax attorney, I know that Tax laws are confusing on a good day…

What you can deduct…

What you have to claim…

And with all the recent changes to the laws, it’s almost impossible to know if you’re doing the right thing.

We’re hoping this will help.

Here’s the straight scoop on how the new tax law affects your estate plan:

A Quick and Dirty List of What Changed

On December 16, 2010, Congress passed a new tax law that changes how your estate should be planned:

·           The estate tax has been restored retroactively to Jan. 1, 2010.

·           You can pass $5 million through your own estate without having to worry in 2010.  That amount will be indexed for inflation after 2011.  Anything over the $5 million mark is taxed at a maximum of 35 percent.

·           If you die in 2011, your surviving spouse can add any of your unused exemption to theirs – a new concept of portability. In calculating the total exemption (up to $10 million) the amount that’s portable is not indexed for inflation, but your surviving spouse’s own exemption amount is.

·           The gift tax still applies but the amount you can give away in your lifetime has been raised from $1 million to $5 million starting in 2011.  This amount will be indexed for inflation as well, and you and your spouse can combine your lifetime limits for a total of $10 million.  If you plan to give away more than $5 million, the    tax rate on the excess will remain at 35%.

·           Generation-skipping transfer tax has been reinstated starting in 2011.  This tax is applied on top of the estate or gift tax to any assets you pass on to your grandchildren or to a trust you establish for their benefit.  The $5 million exemption applies to this tax as well.  Interesting note: There is no tax on the excess this year but that will change next year and the excess will be taxed at  35%.  Also note that portability does not apply to the generation-skipping transfer tax.

·           When considering income tax on inherited assets, remember that the cost basis for the assets is adjusted to the fair-market value on the date the owner dies.  This will help limit the capital-gains tax that your heirs have to pay if they sell the  asset.

·           If assets are inherited in 2010, the executor of the estate has an interesting choice to make: Choose to have the estate subject to the new tax law or follow the system in effect in 2010 (i.e., no estate tax).  If you choose the old law in effect for 2010, the estate must use the original price paid for any asset to calculate the income tax the heirs will owe.  You receive an exemption of up to $1.3 million on the gains and a $3 million exemption on assets inherited from your spouse.

So, What Do You Do Now?

Call your Orange County tax attorney (or hire one if you don’t already have one) and talk to him or her about the changes.  Be sure to ask about the following issues, too:

If you’ve been waiting to see what Congress would do with the estate tax before you took action on an estate, you’re in luck.  Some of the key deadlines that are normally 9 months from the date of death have been extended for people who died in 2010:

·     Filing the return

·     Paying any estate tax due

·     Disclaiming or turning down an inheritance

·     Applying the generation-skipping transfer tax

When you start planning your estate, make sure you have your hands on records showing what your assets cost when they were purchased.  If you can’t prove what the assets originally cost, the IRS is going to assume that the cost was zero and your heirs could be stuck paying capital gains tax on the total sales amount.  For the sake of your heirs, keep all your purchase records in one place, preferably with your estate planning documents.

If you’re selling appreciated assets, talk to your estate planning attorney first.  It may be a better course of action to hold the assets over until 2011.  The carryover question is still not entirely clear at this point and you may bypass those rules if you hold on to the assets until next year.

Many of the changes to the estate tax laws will require a whole new set of paperwork, particularly in dealing with the carryover issue.  So far, the IRS has yet to issue new forms or instructions for dealing with carryover basis.  The deadline for reporting carryover is April 15th of the year following the person’s death.

If you’ve been chosen to be the executor of someone else’s estate, document every conversation and always follow up verbal communication in writing.  If the family disagrees with what you recommend, you’re probably better off doing what they want to do.  Just make sure they sign documentation releasing you from liability and indemnifying you from any losses they take as a result.

If you have an estate plan or are thinking about planning your estate and would like an expert opinion on how to deal with the most recent changes to the estate tax laws, call us to schedule your Family Wealth Planning Session today.  We can identify what needs to be done to ensure that you have the right plan in place to take full advantage of all the recent changes.  Our Family Wealth Planning Session is normally $750, but this month I’ve made space for the next two people who mention this article to have a complete planning session with me at no charge.  Call today and mention this article.


Orange County Estate Planning Attorney Answers, “Should I Name Separate Guardians For My Kids?”

Friday, January 14th, 2011

As an Orange County estate planning attorney, I regularly meet with parents who want to make sure their minor children will be cared for by the people they want, in the way they want, if something unexpectedly happens to them.

Of course that generally means making a will—and even in some situations it even means creating a trust.  Yet in both scenarios, we always create clear guardian nominations so parents have the opportunity to specify who they want (or don’t want) to legally care for their minor children should tragedy strike.

Yet sometimes as I get deeper into this conversation with my Orange County estate planning clients, it becomes clear that their kids would actually fare better if left in the care of different guardians (and yes, perhaps even be separated from one another) if the death of one or both parents occurred.

Of course this is a decision that’s not to be taken lightly, but legally, there is nothing stopping you from leaving your children to the care of different people if it seems necessary for their future well-being.

Not sure when this would be an appropriate choice for your family? Let me give you an example as to when the decision to assign separate guardians would come into play.

Let’s say you are a mother of 3 children.  You have two girls from your first marriage and your third child, a boy, is from the 2nd. If something unexpectedly happened to you, the law dictates that your youngest son would be placed in the care of his father, provided he is still living.

Yet you know that living with your current husband would not be the best arrangement for the girls.  The girls have never been close to your new husband and you can’t imagine the situation getting any better if you were gone.  Worst of all, the girls have no relationship with their biological father.  In fact, he signed over his rights in lieu of paying child support years ago.    So in your mind, leaving the children to him is not an option either.

So based on this scenario, you decide to make your sister the guardian of the girls, while your husband would continue to raise your son if something happens.

Of course that’s just one of MANY examples in which the decision to appoint separate guardians for your children comes into play.  As I tell parents all the time, YOU and only you know what is best for the physical and emotional well-being of your children in a time of need.   While I agree that the ideal situation is to leave the kids together, family dynamics or life circumstances may dictate that alternative plans be made.

Fortunately, that’s the beauty of Orange County estate planning.  Estate planning gently prods you to think about such situations in advance so your kids are given the best chance to thrive if something unexpectedly happens to you.  You can then document your wishes so there is no question as to who you want to care for your kids in your absence.

Haven’t made plans yet to legally appoint someone to care for your minor kids if something happens to you?


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